Army spouse dating
Anyone can buy a uniform, dress up in that for a pic.Most the girls don't know what the uniform is supposed to look like except what they see on CNN. I know one such young lady..has been chatting with this "Navy Seal" on the net. Supposedly he's been deployed 2 years somewhere secret. She was upset because he keeps canceling their meetings, doesn't call when he says he will... It's amazing but people will say anything in the military rumour mill.Yes, it does happen..called the "Dear John" syndrome.There is the stress that the Troop has to deal with in their day to day job.They don't take the time or the effort to make it work. Marriage in the Military world is even harder to maintain, especially in times of war, frequent deployments, low pay, and lets not forget the affects of stress on our Troops. They're not kidding when they say being a Military spouse is the toughest job in the service.So, lets talk about the main problems I saw posted on the boards.
I find it a hoot how the troops around here have the best stereos, brand new luxury cars, blue tooth, cell phones, gold jewelry and designer clothes while living in a that is falling down around their ears. Take the time to do special things for one another.
It could be the case of a lonely Soldier that is deployed that just wants company while deployed and will lose interest as soon as they come home. It could be a pervert looking to reel in their prey. He would call me to see how his son was doing, because he spent all his free time with me. Take your time, make sure it's going to last and that you are both on the same page. I read some posts from some very bitter women (and men) that had caught their Soldier and/or spouse cheating on them. Just because it may have happened to them, doesn't mean that all Military members are incapable of keeping their pants on.
You just can't fall for everyone that chats nice nice on the net. Make sure you know what it takes to fill the roll of a Military Spouse. If your spouse is going to cheat on you, they will do it whether or not they are in the Military.
You have to realize that your Soldier belongs to the Military and that responsibility must and will always come first.
And I'm going to include the older Soldiers and spouses in this little message. I met him when his deployment was over and we've been together ever since.