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Dating over arranged marriage

“But it’s not just traditional families who do things this way; it’s very common in British-Indian culture.

I’d say roughly 75 percent of people my age from my background are dating to find their partner this way.”“My mum is always in contact with loads of people who are asking if she knows any girls or guys, and she’s been keeping a list with lots of names and details of different people; half of the time it’s not even for her own children, she’s just being the messenger for someone else,” Anusha says. Anusha wanted the guys her mom chose for her to be a few years older than her “but not too old,” to live in the same city, to be “the same height or taller, not shorter [than me]”, and to not be living with their parents. and he had to be able to provide for me, which means having a good education or a good job.” Essentially, her mum believed he needed to have his professional life in order before he was ready to start a family.

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If you do something like that, it will get back to the people who set you up–your reputation is on the line.Vikram also says that he met a lot of people who didn’t seem interested in being there: “It felt like they were being forced to be there—people who said yes to their parents but they didn’t actually want to get married.I got to a point where I had to tell my mum that she was choosing the wrong kind of people.”Just like any other method of dating, you can get burned out and weary of the process, so it’s no magic bullet. I never really gave this pivotal question much thought, vaguely imagining, as many of us do, that I’d stumble upon some kind of spontaneous meeting—maybe I’d meet my dream guy while browsing Victorian literature in a bookshop or standing in line for a concert.What I discovered, however, as many people do, is that it can often take a lot more work than you envisioned to meet someone you’re actually compatible with.

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