Dating people in aa
She usually dumps him around February or March, but for all the Christmas related holidays, she’s got a man and feels more normal.
Women who are already in a relationship with a man snuggle up to him, and drama tends to drop (though betaization often tends to rise a little). Just as good as November, though sometimes some men get a little “Christmas drama” from the women they’re in relationships with due to drama within her own family or yours.
Cheating tends to increase in the summer, but that’s not a problem if you’re nonmonogamous. After the troublesome summertime, September is a nice time to date new women again.
I’ve had some of my female readers complain that the term neediness makes it sound like I’m framing women as weak, fragile, insecure creatures that just cling to men (and stress them out). I think women bring a tremendous strength and power to the table in relationships…
when they have access to it and are free of their own fears. Those fears are greater now more than ever really since there’s an entire industry devoted to making sure men and women are wrought with insecurities so they buy products (sowing in and agitating tiny insecurities is the bread and butter of the marketing world).
In the month of March, don’t be surprised to experience breakups (if you’re monogamous) or LSNFTE’s if you’re not.
Women you just met since January are usually exempted though, since you’re likely still going through NRE with her at this time.
Also, certain months are good for relationships while others are more risky or problematic for relationships.