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Interracial dating questions

I'm sure there are parents out there who unfortunately have had a problem with their son or daughter's mixed race relationship, but it's best not to assume that's the norm.Yes, some of us are lucky enough to share our international cuisines with each other, but it's not like it's a competition.It's hurtful; it's an offbeat way of telling us that our chances are slim because it's just weird and abnormal that we're even together in the first place. Less than 50 years ago, interracial marriage was illegal in the United States and even when the anti-miscegenation laws were deemed illegal by the Supreme Court in 1967, interracial couples were harassed and discriminated against for decades.So don't ask your friend if she's always had "yellow fever."Not cool to inquire whether Latinos are better lovers or if a black guy is well endowed.

As if people who are racially different don't hang out, so there's no chance of them getting together. The small talk, the sharing of our childhood stories, the awkward silences — it's brutal.

Worse than the comments, though, are the questions — because those require answers.

Dumb statements, I can just deflect by changing the subject to Hillary Clinton or Jon Snow — but that's not possible when an inquiry is hanging over your head and everyone at the dinner table is waiting for your response.

Now we live in a new, global era with more tolerance and understanding for couples that exist outside the "norms" for relationships... As the "white" half of a Japanese-American couple, I noticed some of the same questions keep popping up again and again.

After a quick chat with some other interracial couples, I realized my experiences were not unique.

If you're curious about the food we cook and eat together on a regular basis, there's no harm in asking; just do it in a way that doesn't force us to choose which is supreme. Would you ask this of any other single-raced couple sitting across from you at the cafe?

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