Talking dating exclusively
We spend weeks using memorized and mirror-practiced pickup lines, months remaining in undefined grey areas, and many of us have even put off the idea of “the one” in favor of just having a good time for years.But the truth is that when we actually do find someone we’d like to date seriously, everything changes, and just like that it’s time to talk about being exclusive.If you haven’t had that explicit conversation with him, you’re not exclusive yet. That’s the only way to get into an exclusive relationship.
The Top Signs He’s Never Going To Commit Terrible because it misleads you into thinking that being exclusive with him is a matter of hitting the right marks in your relationship and having the right things happen. Some of them even had decent advice about whether a relationship was becoming more serious…
The only way to tell if you’re exclusive with him is if he’s explicitly locked you down and told you that he wants an exclusive relationship.
No other “sign” or “hint” means anything, he has to specifically say that he doesn’t want to see other people and that he wants to make the relationship exclusive.
Women seem to always be the ones fretting about the exclusive talk, but in reality, they seem to believe the time spent in the grey area should be about 11 weeks or at least a couple of months.
According to Cosmopolitan, this is “A healthy chunk of time, but not too long for one person to be leading the other one on, which would make them a scrub, also known as a buster.” This number seems surprising as women, more often than men, have been known to worry and seek advice from friends.
This does one very important thing: A guy needs that motivation and incentive to lock a woman down.